The word “love” itself brings lot of relationship in front of our memories. Upon analyzing them, we end up wondering whether there is any true love in these relationships? We often hear that “conflicts sustain love”. Why is it so? If there is true love, then why we need to have conflicts for its sustainability? The word love has been misused to great extent that since ages we are in search of its real state.
There are two kinds of love. One is worldly love, which increases and decreases with circumstances. For eg. Love between two people will decrease if one becomes angry with other and they both will start quarrelling. Their love will increase once again, when one gives flowers to other. How can these be called love when there is abhorrence associated with it. This is just attraction and infatuation. Human love is such that whenever there is too much of love, it turns into dislike and abhorrence. When we become sick for longer time our near ones becomes tire of us. If there is pure love then it should remain the same if external body is diseased or disfigured.
On the other hand pure love does not change with circumstances. It is free of all worldly attachments. It does not have any expectation. It does not see faults. Pure love is such that if a person leaves after insulting you and returns few minutes later, your love for him does diminish a bit. This is pure love, which is free of all attraction and infatuation.
Real love is union with self. Only knowledge of the self can give rise to pure love. To become embodiment of pure love, is to see everything with oneness.
Such unparallel pure love can only be found in the “Gyani Purush” (The enlightened one). The one who is free from any attachment and has only one intention, as how to free everyone from miseries. If a person experience reflection of such unconditional love in his eyes, Just once in his life, he would surrender himself completely. He will never be able to forget that Pure love even for a moment.

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Author's Bio: 

Ambalal M. Patel was a civil contractor by profession. In June 1958, spontaneous Self-Realization occurred within Ambalal M. Patel. From this point on, Ambalal became a Gnani Purush, and the Lord that manifest within him became known as Dada Bhagwan. A Gnani Purush is One who has realized the Self and is able help others do the same. Param Pujya Dada Bhagwan used to go from town to town and country-to-country to give satsang (spiritual discourse) and impart the knowledge of the Self, as well as knowledge of harmonious worldly interactions to everyone who came to meet him. This spiritual science, known as Akram Vignan, is the step-less path to Self-realization.