When it comes to dating or even seducing a woman, self confidence is very vital. Women often relate self confidence with the ability to being successful. While a lot of men believe women look for successful men because they’re more likely to make more money, this simply isn't true.

While it may be a given, women will actually look for successful men because they’re more likely to be satisfied. So you might be thinking what can a man being satisfied have to do with anything. Let me explain in more detail. You see, women know that men who are satisfied with themselves are much less likely to go out looking for someone to satisfy them and are more stable in life.

In a relationship this means that a man will be less likely to cheat, or change jobs/careers frequently or get himself into any number of other compromising situations. Always remember that most women are looking for a man who'll be their partner as well as their lover.

Not only do they want a self confident partner when it comes to things like companionship, decision-making and finance, but in the bedroom as well. In order to effectively seduce a woman you must make her feel as though you’re both equals.

When it comes to self confidence, it always seems there are two different kinds of people - those who have it and others that don’t. Although on the surface this might be true, everyone has the potential of being self confident, or motivated if you would like to call it that.

Have self confidence in knowing that you’re a good person, smart, funny, good at your job, loving, considerate or whatever else your positive traits may be. Be comfortable knowing that not all women are looking for a Doctor or Lawyer. They just want to be with a man who’s confident with who he is, what he want's out of life and what he has to offer in a relationship with her!

Author's Bio: 

I'm Jim Moore from Reprogramming the Mind for Success.

Reprogramming the Mind for Success was written by Dean Whittingham after his parents won the lottery only to become bankrupt 4 years later and part of the 95% of lottery winners who end up with the same fate. The event caused Dean to research the reasons why such a dismal failure rate exists and discovered the real science behind the attraction to failure.

Armed with this knowledge he was able to use this science to change things around and create success instead! He has now created a book and program that not only teaches this science, but also how to Reprogram the Mind for Success. He has helped many, not only in finance, but in health, relationships and many other areas of life. You can read some of the powerful testimonials here: