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Snapshot Management: Leaders under the Spotlight Use Emotional Intelligence - By Reldan Nadler- Mother Wounds: Can An Abusive Mother Cause A Man To Feel Comfortable With Being Treated Badly By Women? - by Submitted on Oct 15, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man was to think about what his interactions have been like with women over the years, he could come into contact with a number of memories that he would rather forget about forever. This doesn’t mean that every moment he has shared with a woman will have been unpleasant. No, what it ...
Views: 31 - Boundaries: Do Some Peoples Childhoods Condition Them Up To Be Caught Up In Other People’s Lives? - by Submitted on Oct 14, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperIt could be said that when someone is in balance, they will be there for themselves and they will be there for others. This doesn’t necessarily mean that they will neglect their own life when they are there for others, though. In general, they could find time to be there for others without ...
Views: 35 - How to choose a wedding photographer - by Submitted on Oct 13, 2020 from James SmithSelecting someone for a very personal and (hopefully) once-in-a-lifetime job doesn't have to be a stressful task. By allowing time and preparing properly, you can ensure that you have done everything reasonably possible to make the right decision. The challenge You only get one chance, ...
Views: 21 - Sense Of Safety: Can Childhood Trauma Stop Someone From Being Able To Feel Safe? - by Submitted on Oct 12, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperFor some people, feeling safe is a normal part of life and something that they take for granted. This doesn’t mean that there won’t have been moments in their life when they have felt unsafe. Throughout their life, there may have been numerous moments when this was the case, yet a moment ...
Views: 50 - Healing Journey: Is It Important For Someone To Accept Where They Are? - by Submitted on Oct 12, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperAfter getting to the point where they can no longer carry on living in the same way, one can end up looking for answers. Perhaps something significant has recently taken place, pushing them over the point of no return in the process. Or maybe, what has been going on hasn’t really changed; ...
Views: 42 - What is a shrink band and what are they used for? - by Submitted on Oct 12, 2020 from James SmithShrink bands are a pre-cut piece of PVC pipe designed to be applied to a container and then shrunk by the application of heat. They come in a variety of products that we use on a daily basis like toothpastes, hairspray, droppers (for the eyes), and many other things that we take for granted. ...
Views: 38 - Disconnected: Can Childhood Trauma Cause Someone To Separate From Their Body? - by Submitted on Oct 09, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperEven though someone will have a head and a body, it doesn’t mean that they will be in touch with both parts of their being. Instead, they could be connected to what is taking place in their head and very rarely be connected to what is taking place in their body. Still, it doesn’t mean that ...
Views: 59 - Motivation: Can Someone Lose Motivation When They Heal Their Inner Wounds? - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperWhen it comes to whether or not someone is in a good place mentally and emotionally, how motivated they are is often taken into account. Therefore, if someone is highly motivated, they can be seen as being in a good way. Someone like this can relentlessly move towards their goals, finding it ...
Views: 45 - Child Abuse: Are Some Parents Too Emotionally Immature To Show Remorse? - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone has come to see that they were mistreated during their early years, they could have the need to talk to their parents about what took place. There could be a number of things that they want from them. For one thing, they might want to know why their parents treated them in the way ...
Views: 59 - Expectations: Can Childhood Trauma Cause Someone To Have Low Expectations? - by Submitted on Oct 06, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperAs the ego-mind creates the illusion of separation, someone can believe that they are separate from everyone and everything. Through having identified with this part of them, they will be nothing more than an observer of their reality. There will then be what is going on around them and what ...
Views: 45 - Managing Anger: Techniques On How To Control Your Temper And Be Anger-Proof In 10 Ways - by Submitted on Oct 05, 2020 from Iona KristinaWhen you are not able to control your anger, it controls you. It can get destructive both for you and for others. A little bit of self-awareness and deliberate attention will go a long way. Because as you give in to anger, you are giving away your true strength. In this article, I will ...
Views: 72 - George Teal County Commissioner - by Submitted on Oct 03, 2020 from James SmithDouglas County commissioner candidate’s military record prompts allegations of misrepresenting service The military record of a Republican candidate for Douglas County commissioner has sparked criticism from political opponents and veterans, with the county’s sheriff breaking with his own ...
Views: 51 - Critical Thinking: Are The People In Power A Reflection Of Humanity? - by Submitted on Oct 03, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperIrrespective of whether it relates to the Prime Minister of the United Kingdom or the president of America, there is no shortage of people who don’t like the person who is the leader of their country. Of course, there are people that do or these individuals wouldn’t be where they are. But, ...
Views: 57 - Expectations: Are Your Expectations Holding You Back? - by Submitted on Sep 30, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperIt is often said that someone shouldn’t have any expectations and that they should just see what happens. Now, there can be times when having this outlook will be the best way to be. For example, if they were to reunite with a long-lost friend or family member, for instance, being this will ...
Views: 78 - Critical Thinking: Can Someone Change The World By Healing Themselves? - by Submitted on Sep 29, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperWhen it comes to changing what is taking place in the world, the general approach is for someone to take action. This will give them the chance to do something about what is going on. And, as far as they are concerned, this could be seen as the only way for them to make a difference. If they ...
Views: 70 - Individuation: Can Someone’s Life Be An Expression Of Their Caregivers Unresolved Issues? - by Submitted on Sep 29, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperOnce someone has left home, it could be said that they will be their own person. Undoubtedly, what they learnt during their time in their caregiver/s presence will have influenced who they are but now they will be free to express themselves. If they have trouble expressing themselves or ...
Views: 81 - Things to consider before choosing a restaurant - by Submitted on Sep 28, 2020 from James SmithIf you plan to dine at a Japanese restaurant, there are a few things to remember. First of all, there are only a few good Japanese restaurants, serving good quality food at the best prices. Second, you need to consider the type of food you hope to eat. Have you ever tried Japanese cuisine? If ...
Views: 50 - Purchase of luxury bedding - by Submitted on Sep 27, 2020 from James SmithLuxury bedding can turn an ordinary bedroom into a great retreat. You need to know what you are buying before you buy luxury bedding. You may be wondering what luxury bedding is, and basically luxury bedding is any type of bedding that makes your bed more elegant and comfortable. Luxury bedding ...
Views: 67 - Factors to consider when buying a hoverboard - by Submitted on Sep 26, 2020 from James SmithHoverboards are fun to drive and they help you reduce traffic. In order for you to buy the right ones, you need to consider a number of factors. These factors include: Size This is very important. The right size of hoverboard to go for depends on your preferences. While you can tell the ...
Views: 63 - Commitment: Can Childhood Trauma Make It Hard For Someone To Commit? - by Submitted on Sep 24, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperWhen it comes to achieving something, developing a skill or having an intimate relationship, for instance, it will be essential for someone to make a commitment. Through making a decision to stick with something, they will be able to make progress and to reap the benefits of doing so. If this ...
Views: 95 - Critical Thinking: Is A Lack Of Individuation One Of The Biggest Problems In Today's World? - by Submitted on Sep 23, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperOver the years, a lot has been said about the number of people who are suffering from mental and emotional problems. This is something that the mainstream media regularly cover. After the inner part of people’s beings was largely overlooked by mainstream society for so long, this can be seen ...
Views: 92 - Critical Thinking: Can Someone Who Is Against Hate Become Hateful? - by Submitted on Sep 22, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperFor quite some time now, a lot has been said in the mainstream media about ‘hate’ and what needs to be done about it. There have also been a number of different things that have taken place to try to deal with it. Along with what is said by this source and the government, there is what ...
Views: 96 - Need disposal? Here's why! - by Submitted on Sep 21, 2020 from James SmithWhen you need disposal waste disposal, you are quickly reminded why your waste disposal is the unhealthy hero in your kitchen. It has a pretty dirty job, but someone (or something) has to do it - and if you take care of your disposal, it's the one doing the heavy lifting (and grinding and ...
Views: 66 - True-Self: Can Childhood Trauma Cause Someone To Be Out Of Touch With Their Feelings? - by Submitted on Sep 23, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperFrom the outside, it could seem as though someone has a good connection with themselves and that what is taking place inside them is defining how they behave. However, although this may appear to be the case, it doesn’t mean that there is any truth to it. One could generally be out ...
Views: 94 - Sense Of Self: Can Childhood Trauma Stop Someone From Developing A Sense of Self? - by Submitted on Sep 19, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperFrom the outside, someone may come across as a strong and as though they have a good connection to themselves. Additionally, they could typically appear to be happy and full of life. But, although they can generally create the impression that they are a well-adjusted adult, it doesn’t mean ...
Views: 105 - How the transfer of a soccer player works - by Submitted on Sep 19, 2020 from James SmithSoccer, also known as soccer in the United States, is possibly the most popular sport in the world. Among hundreds of professional soccer leagues, the English Premier League, the Spanish League and the Italian Lega Calcio Serie A are the best known. The English Premier League (EPL) is considered ...
Views: 65 - Individuation: Can Someone Be Reactive When They Haven’t Individuated? - by Submitted on Sep 17, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperUndoubtedly, if someone has the ability to not be caught up in what is going on around them, their life will be far better than it would be otherwise. They will be able to stay centred and to be the ‘calm in the storm’ so to speak. This will allow them to stay focused on what matters and to ...
Views: 91 - Critical Thinking: Does The Illusion of Separation Make It Harder For Humanity To Change The World? - by Submitted on Sep 14, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperOne of the ways that a lot of people find out about what is taking place where they live and the world as a whole is via the mainstream media. So, by watching a screen and/or reading a paper, someone will be informed. Along with this, there will be those that primarily look towards the ...
Views: 116 - Sense Of Safety: Can Childhood Trauma Stop Someone From Developing A Sense Of Safety? - by Submitted on Sep 13, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperWhen someone has an inner sense of safety, it will be possible for them to be in their body and to express themselves. What this comes down to is that in order for someone to inhabit their body, they will need to feel safe enough to do so. As this component is in place, they will comfortable ...
Views: 111 - Critical Thinking: Is There A Lot Of Rage Held In The Collective Unconscious? - by Submitted on Sep 12, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperWhen it comes to what has been taking place in America and other parts of the world, it is clear to see that a lot of people are enraged. To use an analogy; it is as though a number of small volcanoes have erupted and have continued to erupt as the weeks and months have gone by. Still, in the ...
Views: 106 - Emotionally Reactive: Can Childhood Trauma Cause Someone To Be Emotionally Reactive? - by Submitted on Sep 10, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone’s mind and emotions were settled and they felt at peace, they may wonder what it would be like to experience life in this way more often. Then again, thanks to how rarely they experience life in this way, they could be totally consumed by what is taking place. Perhaps they have ...
Views: 117 - Child Abuse: Why Can It Be Hard For Someone To Open Up About Being Abused As A Child? - by Submitted on Sep 09, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone was abused as a child, they could be in a very bad way now that they are an adult. What they experienced will have taken place many, many years ago, but they won’t have truly put the past behind them. There is a strong chance that what they went through during this time left a mark ...
Views: 113 - Father Wounds: Can A Man Be Out Of Touch With His Fight Instinct If He Had An Abusive Father? - by Submitted on Sep 08, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperIn order for a man to assert himself and to stand his ground, he will need to have a strong connection to his fight instinct/aggression. Ultimately, this part of his being will provide him with the vitality and the power that he needs to truly embrace life. Having this connection doesn’t ...
Views: 127 - Top 5 Japan Travel Tips - by Submitted on Sep 09, 2020 from James SmithThe top 5 tips and advice for traveling to Japan are featured in the content below. Although it seems very simple, people can forget it somehow. I hope this serves as a little reminder for you. 1. Time difference Japan's time zone as if set to GMT is +9 hours. So it is 1 hour faster than ...
Views: 88 - True-Self: Can Childhood Trauma Cause Someone’s True-Self To Go Into Hiding? - by Submitted on Sep 07, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperWhen it comes to how someone behaves and what their life is like, there is the chance that these two things are a reflection of what is taking place internally. In other words, there will be a connection between their inner world and their outer world. This is not to say that their behaviour ...
Views: 142 - Father Wounds: Can A Man Disconnect From His Masculinity If He Had An Abusive Father? - by Submitted on Sep 07, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperFor as long as a man can remember, he may see that he has been passive, easy-going, and found it hard to assert himself. Consequently, he will have most likely spent a lot of time around people who are the complete opposite. He may find that he has spent a lot of time around both men and ...
Views: 121 - Ways to Pull More Joy Into Your Life - by Submitted on Sep 06, 2020 from Kare AndersonTry six research-based tips for turning the page to the next chapter of the adventure story we are truly meant to live. 1. Live Your Greatest Passion Despite Inevitable Risk "Life is like a 10 speed bicycle. Most of us have gears we never use," Charles M. Schulz once wrote. Gretchen Rubin ...
Views: 144 - Father Wounds: What Can A Man Believe If He Had An Abusive Father? - by Submitted on Sep 06, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man was to think about his early years, he might end up thinking about some of the good moments that he shared with his father. Then again, this could be a time when he will remember moments that were far from good. What this may illustrate is that, during this phase of his life, he had ...
Views: 114 - Self-Image: Can Childhood Trauma Set Someone Up To Believe That They Don’t Deserve To Exist? - by Submitted on Sep 05, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperDue to what someone went through as a child and even before they were born, they can believe that they don’t deserve to be on this earth. However, while this core belief, along with others, will be defining their life, it doesn’t mean that they will be aware of it. Like a fish in water, how ...
Views: 113 - Child Abuse: Is It Normal For Someone To Idealise One Parent And To Demonise The Other? - by Submitted on Sep 04, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone was abused and/or neglected during their early years, it doesn’t mean that they will be aware of this. Due to how much time has passed and the defences that they have in place, they might not be able to remember what took place at this stage of their life. Then again, they might ...
Views: 114 - How To Build A Long-lasting Relationship? - by Submitted on Sep 03, 2020 from Eva LongersA long-lasting relationship is a healthy relationship. A healthy relationship brings joy to everyone around them. Stable relationships are beautiful, strong houses, which take time to build. It requires specific materials to come together brilliantly. So many people want a long-lasting ...
Views: 186 - Critical Thinking: Does Someone Need To 'Be The Change' That They Want To See In The World? - by Submitted on Sep 03, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperUnless someone has been living under a rock or in the middle of nowhere and had no connection with the outside world for a number of years, they will have probably noticed that there are a lot of people that want to change the world. Or to be more exact, they will be aware that there are a lot ...
Views: 102 - Why Air Filters Are So Important - by Submitted on Sep 01, 2020 from James SmithHave you ever noticed that allergies are more prominent today than they were fifty years ago? It can be said that at that time we did not have the technology to treat diseases, but that is not the case. People had allergic reactions to rag grass, allergies to certain foods, and a very small ...
Views: 70 - Negative Mindset: Can Childhood Trauma Cause Someone To Develop A Negative Mindset? - by Submitted on Aug 31, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperNow, if someone was to take a step back and to reflect on how they see themselves and their life, they may come to the conclusion that they have a ‘negative mindset’. If they were to open about to someone else, this person could also say the same thing. If they were to make a note of how they ...
Views: 110 - Critical Thinking: How Can Someone Change The World By 'Healing Their Inner Wounds'? - by Submitted on Aug 29, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperCritical Thinking: How Can Someone Change The World By 'Healing Their Inner Wounds'? 29/8/20200 Comments According to Robert Johnson, a Jungian analyst and author, Carl Jung was often asked if humanity would survive. This is what Robert said in relation to this question, "People often ...
Views: 123 - Critical Thinking: Is Humanities Existence Under Threat From The Collective Unconscious? - by Submitted on Aug 28, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperOnce something has been pushed out of someone’s conscious mind, it can seem as though it has disappeared. This could be something that takes place in a very short period of time or it could take a little while longer. At one moment in time, then, it will have been there and in the next, it ...
Views: 128 - Childhood Wounds: Can Someone’s Adult Life Be A Manifestation Of Their Childhood Wounds? - by Submitted on Aug 27, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperIn general, it is believed that once someone is an adult, their childhood years will be well and truly behind them. It could be said that this is to be expected, considering that they will look like an adult. That phase of their life will be over and it simply won’t be possible for them to ...
Views: 124 - False-Self: Can Childhood Trauma Cause Someone To Have An External Focus? - by Submitted on Aug 26, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperOn one side, there is the internal world, and on the other, there is the external world. The ideal will be for someone to be aware of what is going on within and to be aware of what is going on without. Through being this way, they will be able to tune with their needs and feelings, and they ...
Views: 131 - The Birthplace of Choice - by Submitted on Aug 25, 2020 from Eric ThompsonThe more self-aware I became... There was an experience I had in 2010 where my whole life seemed to flash before my eyes. It was like a condensed version of all the things that I had done that were selfish and hurtful. It was so vivid. The interesting part was that during this same period, I ...
Views: 125 - One of the most Powerful Things I've ever Experienced - by Submitted on Aug 25, 2020 from Eric ThompsonJourney of self-discovery... I came across this book in 2012. I was in Federal Prison at the time and was 7 years into my journey of self-discovery. Being able to answer questions about myself, who I am, what makes me do the things that I do… Fear of letting go Motives. What drives ...
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